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Realities of Newborns & Nighttime Diapers

Cloth diapering a newborn at night is challenging.

The challenge about cloth diapering a newborn at night is newborns are tiny and newborns pee a lot. Once you get over the initial “poop all the time” phase, parents begin to wonder how can we get one diaper to go all thru the night (8-12 hours). Meeting that kind of absorbency when your child is on a liquid diet is hard, and for most parents it’s very flustering.

I’ve mentioned before that my most recent addition is an easygoing baby. She’s so easy. She requires like a 1/4 of the energy my first did. Best part – SHE SLEEPS THRU THE NIGHT! And I mean the more conservative 5 hour stretches, with wakings after that, but still. My Toddler *still* struggles to go 4 hours without waking up.

Being exclusively breastfed, and sleeping so very long, nighttime cloth diapering her little 8-12 pound body was a struggle. She’s tiny and almost anything with enough absorbency to go 10 hours (I’m thinking 16-20 oz of absorbency) is MASSIVE on her and makes her look uncomfortable. It just made her look uncomfortable. The few times I did use a nighttime diaper at nigh she still slept great despite the bulk. One diaper I tried often with success was a Bummi’s AIO boosted with a booster of any sort (whatever I found in my drawer)

My Night Time Diaper Strategy

Guys, you ready for?

Cloth Diapering a Newborn at Night - failed realities

I use disposable diapers at night.

I said it. I admitted it.

Disposable diapers at night is just so freaking easy.

No Shame: Disposable Diapers for Nights

Here’s why I have zero shame about using disposable diapers for nights with Little Miss.

  1. It’s not all or nothing. Cloth diapering is making it work for you and your family. If that means only at home, only at night, only during the day, then awesome and you rock that.
  2. It’s just easy. It’s not playing the absorbency game every night trying to get a diaper that fits, doesn’t leak and lets her lay flat on her back.
  3. 2 Under 2. I have 2 kids in diapers, and 2 kids under 2. This means my life is already a shit show, and if I cut myself the slack and take the easy way out with a disposable diaper every now and then I will.
  4. One diaper a night does have an environmental impact on the earth, but I’m not perfect, and I keep trying. I know I’m doing other things to make a difference, and I just refuse to feel guilt or shame for my one crutch.

Nighttime Diapering Today

Little Miss is now almost four months and she’s surpassed 15 pounds. This means bulkier, more absorbent cloth diapers are beginning to fit her better. I’ve stopped using disposable diapers at night because she’s sized out the size 2 disposable I did have. Honestly, I’m too cheap to go buy a package of size 3 disposable diapers. Therefore, I’m figuring out a night time solution.

For the post part she usually uses a padded up flat – I finally like my Geffen Fladdle and I boost with another insert. I also use a larger Geffen Flat at night (Check it out at my affiliate links LagoonBaby or Kellys Closet). Sometimes a Sweet Pea Fitted. Really, just whatever I think can get me 15oz of absorbency.

The Flats and Handwashing challenge also kicked my butt in getting me off disposables at night and back into cloth. It forced me to solve this problem we were having and try new things and I’m grateful for that experience.

Moral of this Story

Don’t ever feel guilty for a crutch. Do what you need to do to survive and thrive in your journey of parenthood.

If you cloth diapered a newborn at night, I’d love to hear what worked for you. If you didn’t, how do you shake the mom guilt?

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Disposable Inserts: Flip Vs. GroVia Biosoaker {Review}

Using disposable inserts for cloth diapers is a weird thing to wrap your head around. Many of you, including SimplyDad, probably wonder “what the f&CK? Just use disposable diapers! Or just commit to doing the freaking cloth diaper laundry.” BUT its not that simple and for some cloth diaper families, like mine, using Flip Disposable Inserts or GroVia Biosoakers is a great meet-in-the-middle make my life easy diapering solution.

Traditionally, I have considered disposable diapers when I just need a break or take a trip.  More recently I’ve fallen into favouring disposable inserts for my diapering needs. This post is going to review and compare the two major brands available – the Flip Disposable Insert versus the GroVia Biosoaker. 

Disposable Inserts - Flip Disposable Insert Versus GroVia Biosoaker - Cloth Diapers

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I’ve ventured into the world of disposable diapers because I have 2 kids under 2. Being pregnant with a young child/toddler is exhausting. When I went on vacation over Christmas holidays, I just needed a break. I used disposable diaper options for Little Man including a combination of Huggies & GroVia Biosoakers. When I visited my family in May, I opted to bring along disposable diapers because because single parenting on holidays is hard enough without squeezing in the time to do cloth diaper laundry for two. On our last camping trip, I didn’t feel like lugging my flat diapers on our hike of Swift Creek Trail (Valemount, BC) and opted for something a little more easy-to-pack.

Disposable Insert Basics

Before we get started on the nitty-gritty between the Flip & the GroVia Disposable Insert options you need to know a few basics. 

  • Disposable Inserts - Flip Verus GroVia Biosoakers - Cloth Diaper OptionsDisposable inserts require a cover! 
    • Each company prefers you use their shell with their disposable insert.
    • Honestly, both inserts worked in any one of my various shells.
      It was suggested the Flip might not fit into a narrower crotch diaper cover, but I did not find this to be the case as the disposable insert is flexible to fitting inside almost anything.
  • Disposable inserts are not flushable and its ideal to flush any solid waste before disposing.
  • There are no dyes or fragrances in either insert.
    • They don’t have the perfume scent of traditional disposable diapers.
  • Disposable inserts are pricier compared to big name disposable diaper brands. They do creep closer in price comparability to eco-disposables diaper brands like Seventh Generation.

Disposable Inserts: Flip Versus GroVia

In hand, the Flip Disposable Insert and the GroVia Biosoaker are two very different ideas of the same concept. Both absorb and catch pee and poop, but they look very different.

Disposable Inserts - Flip Verus GroVia Biosoakers - Cloth Diaper Options - Size Comparison

 

Flip Disposable
Insert		 GroVia
BioSoaker
Cost 18 inserts, $14.95 CDN 50 Inserts, $27.95 CDN
Materials 9g Non-Woven Bamboo Viscose
19-20g Wood Pulp
2.5g SAP
1g Starch-Based Glue		 Lining=,Inego spun bound non-woven fabric.
Core = Wood pulp fibres with minimal SAP gel.
Outer = Bio-Film
WaterProof Backing No Yes
Size Pad: 12cm x 39 cm
Wings: 3cm		 Pad: 10 cm x 30cm
Wings: 5cm (Top & Bottom); 4cm (Sides)
Absorbency * ~15-16 oz ~16-20 oz
Additional Features Can be doubled Up
Compostable
Oeko-Tex 100 Certified		 Adhesive for Underwear
Mostly Compostable
(Elastic in gussets not tested)
Oeko-Tex 100 Certified

* absorbency testing is performed by me in my non-scientific kitchen. I take a measuring cup of warm water and see how much it will absorb. For this experiment is worth noting I poured 8 oz first, and then repeatedly poured 4 oz at a time until I couldn’t anymore with minimal wait time between. Other moms I know suggested the Flip is more absorbent than the Biosoaker, but I don’t find this to be the case. Even in real life, I feel a single GroVia Biosoaker lasts longer and works thru the night better for my moderate night wetters. I also felt my diaper cover was overly moist in the morning when I used a Flip disposable Insert compared to a GroVia Biosaker.

Disposable Inserts - GroVia BioSoaker on Baby - Cloth Diapers-2

GroVia notes minimal SAP gel. However, compared to the Flip, GroVia BioSoakers appear to have MORE SAP gel. This is just my observation.
It was very hard to burst these open. Which is AWESOME! I did fill up the GroVia with 28oz of warm water and it still didn’t burst till I tore it with my hands.
Don’t worry, I considered safety and did this experiment away from children.

My Take: Flip Disposable Insert

The Flip Disposable insert looks and feels like a pad of paper towel. Honestly, it reminds me of a puppy pee-pad. It’s long and wide, but easily fits both of my babies. I fold it down for Little Miss who is past 15 pounds to give her a customized fit. This did not result in additional bulk as the insert is fairly trim.

My big concern with the Flip Disposable Insert was whether or not it could contain a poopy mess without any shape and structure to channel the mess. Despite the lack of poop channeling, we didn’t have any spillage with this insert.

However, because the Flip does not have a waterproof backing, I felt I was not able to reuse covers with back-to-back changes. I did not like how moist the cover is after use. This means the Flip Disposable insert is best suited to covers that wipeable. I enjoyed using it with a Flip, Nuggles, and Blueberry Capri.

Tidbit: The Flip Disposable Insert can be doubled up since there is no waterproof backing. This makes it a great choice for the super soakers of the world.

My Take: GroVia Biosoaker

The GroVia Biosoaker I already know and love. It’s the first disposable insert I tried, and it does a great job. It works overnight for both kids, fits both kids, and holds in the mess. It’s also crazy trim (because it’s not cloth).

The BioSoaker features a compostable waterproof backing alongside elastic casings, which gives it a more curled up fitted look. It fits both kids without folding at the moment, but I did need to fold it when I used it on Little Miss around 10-12 pounds (this did not cause any problems for me). The GroVia Biosoaker does fit into the GroVia shells the best, but really, use it with whatever you have. I would suggest smaller fitting covers over larger covers – like Best Bottom, Buttons, or Rumparooz.

I did find the wings of this diaper often poked out. Just use your finger and tuck them back under the elastics of your diaper cover. It won’t cause any problems. I mostly promise because it didn’t’ for me.

Disposable Inserts - GroVia BioSoaker on Baby - Cloth Diapers

Recommendation 

I’m going to continue purchasing disposable inserts for cloth diapers because I like having one disposable diaper that fits both my toddler and my baby. I keep a stack of GroVia Biosoakers and spare shells in the back of my van for emergencies. This guarantees I always have a back up diaper that fits. Because we all know how fast babies grow, Little Miss outgrew her size 2 disposable diapers DURING OUR HOLIDAY and that was a pain.

I’m also continue to using disposable inserts for camping and hiking adventures because it’s easier than cloth diapers. I can pack 2-3 diaper changes for two kids into a bag easier than using cloth diapers, and it gives a space-saving lighter load when adventuring into the forest. I lean more towards a Flip for these adventures knowing I could safely dispose in an outhouse if needed, as the Flip is entirely biodegradable and compostable.

For me, future purchases in disposable inserts will likely be cost related.

  • The Flip Disposable Insert a little on the high end of Cost (~80 cents CDN). The small package is easy to burn thru with 2 in diaper.
  • The price point of GroVia Biosoakers (~50 cents CDN) is closer to larger sized “eco/green” disposable diaper.

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My Very Real Kitchen & a Toddler

I can’t help but share something incredibly cute and adorable from my day yesterday. I will advise that if ‘real’ mom-lived in, un-tidy, kitchens are not your think you should check out this post instead and continue on. If you are okay with messy, unclean, disaster real kitchen, please keep reading. 

My Very Real Messy Kitchen & A Toddler Flipping Pancakes

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This morning, I made pancakes for breakfast. I don’t run a very tight ship when it comes to my home’s tidiness. I sweep the floors daily and mop once a week. The dishwasher runs every night, but more often than not the chaos is left to be. I try, but then I don’t. I care, but then I don’t. Meet me in my happy place.

Anyways, apologies of my real kitchen aside, I want to share with you my pancake-cooking toddler. I was laying in bed nursing Little Miss and my toddler woke up and left his bed. I hear him pushing around his activity bench in the kitchen and mutter to myself about not locking the gates. As always, I shrug it off and listen intently for screaming sounds of danger.

When I finally finish nursing and laying down Little Miss, I find him eating the pancakes I left on the griddle, and playing with the other one. He gets the concept of flipping pancakes. With his dishevelled bedhead, and cute smirk, I can’t help but share his adorable-ness.

If you want to relate this blog back to diapering… he’s rocking out in his Blueberry Simplex. We only have one snap setting left to go. If you are a cloth diapering family and you know of some awesome AIO diapers for bigger fitting toddlers, let me know. At 30 plus pounds things are finally getting tight.

You can purchase Blueberry Simplex at the following retailers: LagoonBaby (Canada); Cloth Diaper Kids (Canada); Kelly’s Closet (USA); Diaper Junction (USA)

Simply Mom Bailey - Omaiki AIO Cloth Diaper - Little MissI can’t help but also show off Little Miss in Omaiki. Smash the Cake is an adorable colour and print celebrating the 10 year anniversary of the brand. We participate in the Brand Ambassador program with Omaiki and received this product at no cost in return for brand promotion.

You can purchase Omaiki AIO at the following retailers: LagoonBaby (Canada); Well.ca (Canada)

 

Don’t forget to enter the current giveaways ending June 30 – $100 Giveaway to a Cloth Diaper Retailer or Paypal AND check out Nuggles! Canada 150 Giveaway celebration. 

 

What is new in your world this week?  Are your toddlers driving you insane, or are you highly functioning and rocking motherhood?

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Swift Creek Trail & Nuggles Outdoorable Giveaway

This summer I want to get outside more. I want to be more of an outdoor mama because being outside really does make me a better mom and person. Over the weekend, we visited the Robson Valley in beautiful British Columbia. We stayed in Tete Jaune Lodge in a cabin because I just couldn’t handle the possibility of tenting in the rain. Did it rain? Not at all, but it had been earlier that morning. We also got some hiking in on the Swift Creek Trail in Valemount (we also tried to drive up a couple of mountains, but that failed).

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Camping was a blast. I enjoyed almost every second of the adventure. I did not enjoy when my 7km hike turned into a 10 km hike. I mistakenly read the description of the Swift Creek Trail. We got to a point on the trail where the bugs were so bad, and I was so tired (but you couldn’t stop because then the bugs would DEVOUR you), that hiking was no longer fun. I just wanted to sit down and eat my sandwich and my carrots with humus. Regardless, I’m glad we did it. I love to hike, most of the time. And the Swift Creek trail was gorgeous. I have zero regrets… I only regret not packing the bug spray.

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Our Swift Creek Trail Experience

Little Man walked the majority of the first half of the trail along Swift Creek Trail. Hiking with a toddler requires a change in mindset. You have to come to terms with the fact you aren’t going anywhere fast and thats okay. My husband struggled with this, but its not about going places but about experiencing places. It’s about watching him catch an ant, try to pick up a root, and climb over stumps. He rocked this part of the hike.

Swift Creek Trail with kids, Valmount, BC, Robson Valley hiking

Once he began to meltdown, we strapped him to the back of Simply Dad in our Onya and continued on down Swift Creek Trail. Little Man did really good up there, but he was eaten alive by the bugs. I opted to leave the bug spray in the van, and this proved to be a mistake. As the bug spray wore off, the bugs came out in droves. Deep in the forest, we couldn’t hike fast enough. As a result, he had a pretty bad reaction – hives and swelling. I’m so glad I listened to Suzi at CozyBums Diapers and brought along benadryl. Unforntatley, my kid gets excited on benadryl, which means we had an itchy, miserable, hyper toddler for most of the rest of the night.

I would totally do Swift Creek Trail again with my family. It was a great hike, and relatively easy and moderate for me (a beginner hiker). The climb to the lookout was totally worth it.We opted to make a half day hike of the adventure, and continued onwards. You could easily turn around at the look out (there’s a picnic table an an amazing view).

I really enjoy walking in the deep dark forest. Swift Creek is a beautiful creek and the suspension bridge half way was amazing! So much fun to clamber over. I only wish the bugs, but nobody can do anything about the bugs and I’ll be better prepared next time.

Swift Creek Trail with kids, Valmount, BC, Robson Valley hiking

The trail does loop out onto 5 Mile road at the bike park. This was really confusing for us as we hadn’t expected this (mostly because someone on Main Street said we’d come out right on main street, she was mis informed). Walking down a dusty old road isn’t very exciting, but it did provide us with a much needed break from the bugs. We even saw some butterflies!

Swift Creek Trail, Valemount, BC, Hiking BC

Everyone NEEDS a Giveaway.

I’m finishing off this post by sharing with you this AMAZING giveaway going on by Nuggles! In celebration of Canada 150 they are giving away this OUTDOORABLE prize package! Outdoorable is currently one of my favourite prints. We even rocked it on our camping trip (I used a combo of flats and disposable inserts – more on that later).

Nuggles Outdoorable Giveaway - Canada 150

1x Nuggles Wet/Dry Bag in our Outdoorable Print
1x Nuggles Simplee Reusable Diaper w/ 2 inserts
1x Lovey’s Tushi Stick
1x Canada Moose Applique 18X18 Decor Pillow
1x Canvas Bucket Tote
1x Moose Bobble Canada 150 Pencil
Total value: $150 CAD

 

 

 

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I don’t give a Sh*t about Cloth Diaper Wash Routine

 

I Don't Give a shit about cloth diaper wash routine

I don’t give a sh*t about having the perfect cloth diaper wash routine.

I think it’s an unattainable goal to have the ultimate perfect admin approved cloth diaper wash routine.

After 2 years of cloth diapering and being involved in the cloth diaper community, I’ve learnt one thing. It applies to wash routines, diapering and motherhood. Everyone’s experience is different and you need to find what works for you. *mind blown*

I’m writing today to call out the diaper brands, the cloth diaper admins, and general know-it-alls of the Internet. There’s no one-way to wash your cloth diapers. Washing diaper’s is extremely subjective If it’s not working change it. If it is working, don’t change it.

I think there are some basic fundamentals to washing diapers, but I don’t think its a science and anyone claiming to hold the secret science of diaper washing is high on their horse. Often when asked for resources, they site notoriously unscientific websites that lack any basis in scientific theory and actual research. I also believe that there are a few people out there who just get it. They understand the basics of laundry and detergent and are capable of offering simple, straightforward strategies to mastering the cloth diaper wash routine.

The *Ultimate Goal

Finding the prefect cloth diaper wash routine is the *ultimate goal* for almost any cloth diaper family. The question is constantly asked on cloth diaper groups, blogs and forums – even mommy play dates. Nailing your wash routine is a hallelujah moment because it just makes the cloth diapering experience easy. It means your cloth diapers always come out clean, bums are almost always rash free, and there isn’t any unsavoury smells lingering from your child’s pants.Many families struggle with finding the “perfect wash routine.” I know this because I’m on the internet. In doing so, families turn to cloth diaper communities online to help find this “perfect cloth diaper wash routine”. Many groups offer “admin approved” stamps of approval to their routine in an attempt to weed out the chaos, claim their truth, and exert control over something so fundamental to the success of cloth diapering

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I consider myself fairly active in the cloth diapering community, and day in and day out I witness the war of the wash routines play out in diaper and mom groups across the web. It is time to end this war and offer helpful suggestions without blame, guilt and judgment. That’s right, you go ahead and use rocking green detergent if it works for you.  

It’s just f&cking laundry.

Practice and experiment with what works, and don’t get caught up in a seal of approval. If it works for you and your family go for it.

It’s okay if you have to occasionally tweak your routine. I promise, it’s not the end of the world. It’s not okay if you have to continually bleach and strip diapers. Then you’ve got a problem and when you do, reach out for help, but don’t get caught up in the stress of finding the perfect cloth diaper wash routine. Instead, arm yourself with some knowledge about laundry and make some tweaks.

I’ve only twice had a real cloth diaper issue. The first was when we started solids and Nellie’s no longer cut it with solid poop food (the amount of detergent I needed to clean was finiancally irresponsible). The second was a round of ammonia after Christmas due to increased toddler pee concentration (it was stinky even in the potty) and influenced by too much detergent from me being overzealous with the scoop. I don’t believe in bleach. I did a double tide wash on hot with a couple rinses the first time. Boom clean. The second time, I used Mini Kiwi Sanitizer to kill the stink the second time. Following, I started using a little less detergent going forward.

Problem solving is the key to a successful cloth diaper wash routine.

If you are struggling with stink and ammonia burns, I’ll help you out, but this mama blogger has decided there is no right way to do things. It is just f&cking laundry. It’s why I told you how to rock your hand wash routine, instead of giving you a recipe for success. I much prefer chatting about cloth diapers, building the ultimate stash, and collecting them all. Can’t wait to finish my next cloth diaper review – that’s what’s actually fun in the world.

 

Peace.

 

Are you having trouble with getting clean diapers? My first and foremost recommendation is to connect with your diaper brand or retailer. They often have people paid to help. Many brands like GroVia or CottonBabies will work with you over the phone or email to solve cloth diaper wash routine problems. Likewise, your local cloth diaper retailer is often more than willing to talk you thru it. Keeping you in cloth, keeps everyone in business.

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Cubbly Classic Petite Review – WAHM Fitted Diaper

I know this mama at Cubbly, and she makes gorgeous fitted cloth diapers and we’ve collaborated to bring you this awesome review. Lisa is the dedicated work-at-home-mama (WAHM) behind Cubbly. Based out of California, Cubbly  is sewing up a storm to keep all the babies in fitted cloth diapers.

I received this product from Cubbly at no cost to myself in exchange for my honest opinions and review of this product. I promise the exchange of goods and relationship with this brand does not influence my review and write of my honest truth. 

My experience with fitted diapers is minimal, at best. I have a few overnight quality fitted diapers in my stash, but that’s about it. I’m not sure why I haven’t gone over the WAHM side of diapering. Probably because it would lead to a slippery dark slope of custom designed diapers and any print I could imagine. and now that its hot summer days and we just lounge around in only our diaper. There is nothing sweeter than a colourful fitted diaper on a baby girl. 

Cubbly - WAHM Fitted Diaper - Cloth Diaper Review - Fitted Cloth Diaper

 

Cubbly is owned and operated by Lisa. She sews all the diapers and started sewing her own diapers when her youngest started being sensitive to serging, PUL, snap down rises and snappi’s. She is know growing her business by bringing an eco-friendly vibe to the cloth diaper market. Lisa chooses to use organic, and even her tags are made of organic cotton. Check out her ETSY shop today, and follow her on Facebook and Instagram

Petite Classic Cubbly Design

Lisa sent me a Classic Petite Cubbly Fitted Diaper to check out with Little Miss. This stylish WAHM fitted diaper is ideal for babies sized 7-25 pounds. The classic fitted is suited for a heavy wetter or nighttime diaper.

The body of the diaper is composed of mostly cotton with beautiful cotton fabrics on the exterior, with silky soft cotton velour on the inside. This WAHM fitted diaper comes with the addition of a double long insert composed of Bamboo/Hemp blend and topped with cotton velour.

The diaper is a classic sized fitted shape. Instead of more traditional rise snaps, it offers a fold down waist snaps with a triple snap crossover waist (that is three snaps on the wings to give a secure and tight fit on all babies). This Cubbly Classic Petite WAHM fitted diaper is turned and top stitch (compared to serged).

Cubbly Petite Classic Fitted Cloth Diaper Review - WAHM Fitted Diaper

My Take on Cubbly’s Classic Petite

This diaper arrived two days before the Flats & Handwashing challenge which was the week before my epic roadtrip adventure with two kids. I hand washed this diaper to get to experience it (thats how dedicated I am to trying out cloth diapers – I kid, kind of). Since being home, its been one of my husbands favourite to grab and use. He doesn’t quite get it needs a cover to be waterproof, but who blames him? Why cover up gorgeous?

During the past two years, I have under appreciated and undervalued the fitted cloth diaper. In my defense, the only fitted diapers I really own are the snap-less sustainable babyish and you need to use a real pin and try not to bleed all over the diapers. Cubbly is on to something; beautiful WAHM fitted diapers are the perfect compliment to any cloth diaper stash.

  • Waist Snaps: Nobody wants to deal with pains, and the waist snaps on the Cubbly Classic Petite cloth diaper is the perfect every time. The turn down waist is also a great change in rise snap. Very much like my love of the waist snap rise in the newborn cloth diapers, I like the sleek finish look of a fold down waist.
    Cubbly - WAHM Fitted Diaper - Classic Petite - Baby
  • Sizing: The petite sized diaper is just perfect for my little girl. I opted for the Petite because I wanted something that would be a nice trim fit and work great now. I was able to *squeeze* it onto my toddler, but it was less than ideal (and at 33 pounds, nothing much fits, much less a petite fitted diaper)

    Cubbly - WAHM Fitted Diaper - Classic Petite - Toddler

    It fits. But would it hold a poop? Maybe? We had a little butt crack situation going on.

  • Absorbency: Cubbly nails it that this is a heavy-wetter daytime diaper. The Petite Classic worked best for us during long daytime naps, but wasn’t up for the nighttime test since my breastfed baby is a nighttime super soaker.
  • Insert: I love the double long snake style insert for this diaper. It provides optimal absorbency as it can be folded to meet your baby’s size and gender (that is boys often need more up front, and girls more in the middle/back).
  • Soft Velour: Why don’t they make underwear out of this? Your baby and mine will be happy as can be wrapped up in a Cubbly. The silky soft cotton velour on the Classic Petite is AMAZING and my baby slept thru the night despite maxing out the diapers absorbency.

My biggest qualm with the Cubbly Fitted Diaper is the cotton print faded in the wash. I imagine this is to be expected from fabric. It doesn’t diminish the overall functionality of the diaper (which rocks, by the way). At the end of a month of wash and wearing of our Cubbly Classic Petite Fitted cloth diaper, the vintage washed look had me leaving baby girl coverless.

Cubbly - WAHM Fitted Diaper - Classic Petite - Cloth Diaper Review

My Recommendation

Of course you need to try a Cubbly! Why? because this WAHM fitted diaper is a perfect fit for babies, and offers an exceptional quality diaper for every little tush. This diaper is ideal for families wanting to break out of synthetic materials and put on a soft, natural-fibre diaper.

Cubbly cloth diapers are an awesome choice because of your supporting a work at home mama. By supporting these dedicated parents, we keep our money local, and help grow the most important part of our economy and community (in my humble opinion). Check out her ETSY shop today, and follow her on Facebook and Instagram (she may have posted the most memorizing video of sewing a couple weeks past).

If you haven’t checked out her shop yet, I urge you to do so because not only does she sew beautiful diapers, but adorable newborn booties and hats (because this woman doesn’t waste anything! She finds a use for all those scraps).

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Getting Out with 2 Under 2

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Life with 2 under 2 is a hoot. It’s exhausting, and kind of invigorating. There are nights with little sleeps, mornings with way too much screaming, and afternoons that drag on and on. I stay sane by getting out of the house with my 2 in tow. Getting outside with 2 under 2 is scary and intimidating, but you can do it. I admit to having hesitations most days. I dread changing diapers, dressing children and finding shoes for everyone. Fighting my toddler into a car seat while my newborn screams about her displeasure is less than enjoyable. Spending 15 minutes to put shoes back on, set up a stroller or wrap, and ensure everyone is ready to hit the trail is overwhelming. And then having to do it all in reverse… STOP THINKING ABOUT IT AND JUST DO IT. How to Get Out with kids under 2 - Getting Outsdie with Kids I guarantee, even if shit hits the fan, its worth it to get out with 2 under 2 because your toddler needs a little less Paw Patrol, and you need a little more social interaction. And if shit does hit the fan, you’ve got a funny story to tell (oh, and please do tell me in the comments!)

How to get out with 2 Under 2

Whether it’s a play date at the park, a birthday party, or a trip to the grocery store getting out with 2 under 2 is an overwhelming experience, but you just do it. Put the anxieties and stress aside and JUST DO IT. That’s the best tip I have and then I have these suggestions to make it a little more enjoyable and less stressful.

  1. Go with Friends: Hitting the trail with a group of friends is easier than bringing your significant other because moms are just in the know that you need help and provide the extra set of helping hands to keep the kids under control.
      • Our first outings were with our local Hike it Baby group and I knew with 4-5-6 other women with toddlers, I would have all the support I would need. When I was trapped nursing the baby, another alert mama was able to chase my toddler off the cliff for me. Likewise, I could leave my stroller with the group to chase my toddler back onto the trail. Notice a trend… he doesn’t so much run away as he finds something much more interesting to explore.

  2. Ease in with your favourite trails/playgrounds: Return to the familiar trails because its just easy. You know the landscape, the benches, the length of time, etcetera. And so does the toddler. Choose these places first, and choose the easy favourite places. After that, do something new and different.
  3. The stroller is your friend: I never imagined I would love the stroller, but with 2 under 2 the stroller is a great safe space to put down a newborn to play, interact and chase the older child. Its cumbersome to do this while baby wearing a newborn.
      • Chasing small children off boulders with an even smaller less-head controlled newborn strapped to you is less than enjoyable.
      • We have gone without a stroller, it can be done, but it is just easier with one. If I don’t bring a double stroller, I opt to swap out the newborn to wear while the toddler rides in the stroller. Be smart, push the heavy and carry the light. However, you’ll notice I tend to wear Walter more, and thats mostly before it seems easier when mixing running and wrangling. 

  4. Comfortable with feeding: before hitting the trails make sure you’ve figured out how to feed your newborn and your toddler.
    • Whether it’s being comfortable breastfeeding or bottle feeding, being at ease with this will make for an easier journey. Also, don’t forget about the toddler because chances are the toddler will want to eat more than the newborn.
  5. Pack Ahead of Time: I find it helpful my vehicle is already packed with supplies for hikes and adventures and my diaper bag is mostly packed most of the time. With strollers, blankets, outside clothing and more already packed in the van, it’s just a matter of packing up the children and leaving when the time comes.
    • Pro Tip: In my vehicle I keep GroVia Biosoakers (fits every size), change of clothing for everyone (just a t-shirt usually), First Aid Kit, Stash of Granola Bars, and a bag full of hats and gloves (the cold always surprises me).

Other random things I do.

  • I leave when my husband leaves, or plan to come home when my husband is expected to be home. This way I can get at least one set of extra helping hands during the debacle. I always try to be home with groceries when he comes home because while it is possible to unload with 2 under 2, it’s a lot of work.
  • I typically buckle in Little Miss into her seat and then chase down my toddler in the front lawn and buckle him in when leaving from home. When we return, I usually grab Little Miss first, and then unbuckle Little Man with one hand and help him down and into the house. [keep in mind I don’t use bucket seats, straight into a convertible Clek]
  • Sometimes its easier to walk than drive, and we load up the double stroller and just go.
  • Snacks & Food: I keep the front console of my minivan stuffed with snacks to share with the toddler, and myself. I take full advantage of any and all drive thru’s and bribe my toddler to cooperate on hikes and trails. #noshame.

How to Get Outside with 2 Under 2

Do you feel prepared? Think you can venture out on your own?What keeps you from leaving the house with kids in tow?

Trust in yourself. You are an amazing mama and you can do anything. You keep these children alive each day and give them the experiences to learn and grow and become amazing tiny humans. I love watching my child explore the outdoors, and be considerate little people when in shops and restaurants. Is it stressful? Yes. Are people judging me for having a toddler who acts like a toddler? Yes. But, at the end of the day, nobody really remembers me and if they do, they probably think, “woah, she’s crazy and that toddler smeared whip cream all over the chair, and that was kind of hilarious.” Nobody ever thinks I’m a bad mom for leaving the house and experiencing the world with kids in tow. It’s just one way I rock at motherhood.

Just do it. Don’t over think it.

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6 Community Events In & Around Prince George with Kids

Before I was mom, I had a sweet gig working the festivals, fairs and communities in Northern British Columbia. Now that I am mom, I dream of this past job and my lunch breaks eating spiral potatoes and sucking back lemonade. But why am I wallowing in self-pity. Now I am mom, I can take my kids to these AMAZING events and celebrate everything Northern British Columbia offers. I don’t even have to work. That means leaving if it rains, and basking in an air conditioned Restaurant if the weather gets too crazy. And you can too, come join me in checking out what to do in Prince George with Kids.

Prince George, British Columbia is located in what is arguably known as Northern BC. With many surrounding communities and heritage sites within a 2ish-hour drive, there are plenty of opportunities to check out with kids and families this summer. Don’t miss these 6 Summer Community Events in & around Prince George with Kids.

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6 Community Events in & around Prince George with Kids

  1. BMO Kidz Art Dayz, Prince George, British Columbia – July 7 & 8, 2017
    • Hosted by the Two Rivers Art Gallery in Prince George, the BMO KidzArt Dayz is not to be missed and the ultimate Prince George with Kids community event (in my opinion). From toddlers to young children, there’s something for everyone whether its creating spiral art or building your rocket. This FREE community event is hosted downtown Prince George and is bringing in Charlotte & Matt Diamond for 2017.
  2. Kids Day at Billy Barker Days in Quesnel, British Columbia – July 14, 2017
    • In its own right, Billy Barker Days is a fun filled week of excitement and community participation for Quesnel, BC. Kids Day is a highlight for families of all ages and stages. Hosted in LeBourdais Park in downtown Quesnel, you can expect to find entertainment, activities and crafts.
  3. Kids Carnival at Humblestead, Prince George, British Columbia – July 15, 2017.
    • Go back in time with some historical family fun at Huble Homestead North of Prince George. This quaint homestead property, about 5-10 minutes off the highway and along the river, offers a variety of fun and games during their annual Kids Carnival. You might find yourself having an ol’ fashion sack race, creating crafts, or churning your own ice cream.
  4. Summerfest, Prince George, British Columbia – July 16, 2017
    • This relatively new community event, Summeriest offers wide array of vendors and kid activities. It’s unfortunate it all happens the same weekend as Kids Carnival and Billy Barker Days and the only year I attended this event it poured rain. Expect to find a great kids area. 
  5. Caledonia Days at Fort St. James National Historic Site – August 12, 2017
    • Do you like chicken races?  The chickens race most days, but on Caledonia Days you get to experience some of the best Fort St. James National Historic Site has to offer. Located on beautiful Stuart Lake, this historic site never fails to impress families and adults alike with a stellar celebration and Caledonia Days is one I’ve marked on my calendar because I can’t pass up pie.
  6. Williams Creek Sports Day at Barkerville National Historic Site – September 3, 2017
    • End the summer at Barkville National Historic Site with the ever enjoyable Williams Creek Sports Day. Participate in your favorite event and games during this fun filled afternoon with the family.

Community events are totally my jam and even more so now that I have kids. How about you? Are you going to make it out to any of these? Or do you have another secret to a fun-filled summer in Northern British Columbia?

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You can also check out these old pictures of my travel experiences at community events and festivals in Northern BC from Instagram or other travel adventures as we Explore BC as a family and blogger.

 

 

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2 Under 2: Why I am Going Camping with Babies!

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I have 2 under 2, and I will take them camping this summer. I might do alone; Or I might do it with my partner. Either way, this mama blogger is camping with babies (and a toddler) and might survive, or she might not.

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My Backyard Camping Experiment

If you follow along on Instagram, chances are you know I’ve been backyard camping with my crew this week. We spent two nights in the tent in our backyard. This is my strategy of getting the kids used to the tent. One of my biggest anxieties of camping with kids is EVERYONE, mom included, having a never-ending meltdown of epic proportions in a campsite. Public humiliation is my biggest fear for taking my kids camping (because I when talk camping with babies, I mean hunkering down at a public campsite I can drive into).

 

Backyard camping is an interesting adventure. I set up the tent with the fond memories of camping in my own back yard as a young girl. However, when you are the adult in charge with an energetic and rambunctious toddler, and a 3 month old, it’s less than exciting.

Backyard Camping with 2 Under 2 - Why I'm going camping with babies - eating s'mores with a toddler.

Shameless Cloth Diaper plug – Little Man is rocking out in Sweet Grass a retired GroVia print. When we go camping, I’ll likely bring my GroVia Prefold diapers and/or my stash of flats.

The toddler was less than impressed with sleeping in a tent. Just like he is at home. It was not a surprise. My strategy for tent sleeping is to let him stay up until he crashes. I let him roll around in the tent until he crashed at around 8:30pm (normal bedtime is 7pm). This proved to be an okay strategy since it’s not dark in a tent to encourage the normal.

Falling to sleep was the least painful experience, as he then continued to wake multiple times during the night in screams and tears. At times, he stole the blankets and I was cold or on the ground because he’s also a mattress hog..

Little Man woke up to his regular schedule, 6 am; however, the restless night before created a

Backyard Camping with 2 Under 2 - Why I'm going camping with babies - eating s'mores with a toddler.

Maybe he slept terribly the first night because I filled him full of s’mores? #reasonabletheory

cranky, tired, miserable, sobbing TODDLER. He was often inconsolable and irrational. I was grateful, we were at home, and I could just turn on a movie, pop some popcorn and leave him to be miserable.

Camping with Babies Night 2

Bravely, I endured the torture again. There was equal displeasure from all parties in the hot tent, and finally Little Miss crashed with Dad inside the house, and my toddler admitted defeat in the pile of blankets (naked). I stealthily put his clothes back on, and stayed up way too late. Little Miss slept all night in her dockatot next to me, and Little Man was a cuddle monster.

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Almost. Toddler asleep, and nursing the littler with my tumbler full of wine #momwin

There were fewer wake ups the second night, but many more cuddles. He woke up in a much better mood, and maintained a better attitude thru the day. I didn’t feel like trying a third night. Plus the windstorm blew over my tent.

It was kind of miserable, but it was kind of awesome. I think when I hit up a real campsite it will be even better. There will be more challenges beside sleep (like how do I go to the bathroom… with kids in tow), but sleep is my biggest stressor).

 

 

5 Reasons I’m taking the Babies Camping

Why I'm Taking the Babies Camping this Summer - 2 Under 2 - Family Camping Trip

  1. Fresh Air is just good for you.
    • Have you ever met a child whose played outside all day? Usually they are exhausted, happy, and ready to crash. Sometimes, you get an ounce of cranky toddler, but it’s worth it.
  2. I need to unplug and disconnect to rejuvenate Me.
    • Honest – I spend way too much time on my phone/computer and on social media. I need to disconnect, and while I try different strategies at home, it’s not always working out for me. We’re going camping, so I’m forced to put the phone away, pull out my real camera, and just enjoy what my life and family has to offer. Oh, and lets not forget the rejuvenating powers the forest, the lake and the trail has to offer.
  3. Start a Family Tradition.
    • My mother didn’t really take us camping; it’s just not her thing and that’s okay. My father would take us camping every summer and I have such fond memories of our canvas tent, fishing, and muddy feet around the campfire. I want to establish the same family tradition, memories and experiences that built who I am as a person with my children. They might just be babies and toddlers, but camping with babies is how to begin the tradition and excitement.
  4. Establish a positive relationship with Nature.
    • Its well established that time spent in nature positively influences a child’s relationship with the world around him. The more experiences a child has with the forest and the natural landscape, the more likely they are to become stewards of the environment and see the value in maintaining the integrity of our Earth. This value is extremely important to me and my family in ensuring we have the Earth for future generations. It was the topic of my Undergraduate Report for my Bachelors of Art in Environmental Studies. I’ll link a few of my favorite studies and books below.
        • Last Child in the Woods by Richard Louv is a GREAT PLACE to start.
        • I’ve also linked in a few other books I thoroughly enjoyed during my undergrad degree.

  5. I need to get out of the house.
    • I’m one of these people who cabin fevers really easily. Being home, alone, in my house without friends and family to interact with really drags on me. It makes me cranky, miserable and just not a great mom.
    • Camping with babies is how I will rock at motherhood because the laundry can wait and you don’t need to mop the floors if you aren’t home.

Are you planning on going camping with your family this summer? Let me know in a comment below.



In the meanwhile, I’ll be planning an epic trip of camping with babies. It is too bad I have too many good ideas, because I’m not sure whether to go to Stuart Lake (Fort St. James), Tumbler Ridge, or plan an epic roadtrip into the Okanagon (that might be too adventurous). I would love to check out the falls in 100 Mile House again…

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